Vermont is considering to Legalize “Sexting”

In a previous post, I talked about a new look at child pornography.  That post dealt with teens sending naked pics of themselves and Traci Lords.  Lately, Vermont is considering making “sexting” legal.  From the Huffingtonpost:

Sexting refers to the exchange of explicit photos and videos via mobile phone. Under current laws, participants can be charged with child pornography, but lawmakers are considering a bill to legalize the consensual exchange of graphic images between two people 13 to 18 years old. Passing along such images to others would remain a crime.

With this, teens won’t be considered sex offenders if they send naked pictures of themselves.  I think this may be more practical rather than letting the law go against them by making them sex offenders.  Of course, you still want to teach them that sending naked pictures of themselves isn’t the smartest thing to do.  To me, the analogy is expanding sex education: let the teens be aware of what’s going on and if they ignore it, they’re going to have to face the consequences and be responsible for them.

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I can’t Believe They got Away with This

I don’t care what your political ideology is. It’s still funny:

Should we join up an “teabag” our representatives?

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Book Review: Against Happiness, In Praise of Melancholy by Eric Wilson

After looking through this, I was expecting something different.  Based on the title, I was expecting to have a psychological bent to it.  It has some of it, but there’s more of a literature outlook to it.  Wilson uses various aesthetes to explain what he’s talking about.

To start, the introduction is what hooked me in.  When we think of melancholia, we think of something sad, disastrous, and a troublesome thing to have.  But Wilson laments this.  Annihilating melancholia will get rid of our creative impulses.  Would you really want to live a life of simple contentment, complacency?  The challenges of life makes life worth striving for, even if it makes us unhappy.

With this, America is overemphasizing on happiness.  It’s a half-existence.  Melancholy is an essential part of a creative life.  To desire only happiness is to have an inauthentic life.  This happiness is leading to a bland life.  It’s the life of what Nietzsche calls the untermensch.

Getting rid of melancholy shouldn’t be seen as a cure.  Rather, melancholy is the cure to the bland, comfortable, “happy” life.  We seem to want to get rid of it simply by taking pills.  Indeed, a few handful of doctors just prescribe antidepressants to patients simply because the patients don’t want to work through their sadness.

To be clear, Wilson isn’t talking about clinical depression.  Clinical depression is a serious matter where seriously depressed people have the “what’s the point” feeling.  Depressed people do need help.  Wilson is talking about melancholy and there’s a fine line between depression and melancholy.  It deals with the degree of activity.  If people think they are depressed and a pill can help them out, that it what Wilson is critiquing.  Depression, again, is apathy in a world not going right.  It’s the inability to not feel anything or to have much use.  Melancholy, on the other hand, still feels gloomy about the world, but has the ability to do something about it.  It has to do with motivation.  This motivation stirs up creativity to get out of the gloomy state.  In other words, melancholy pushes through the pain and sadness with creativity.  Our culture confuses these two and treats them as something clinical, something to get rid of, and seeking out happiness as the pursuit of all.

This stifling of melancholy isn’t helping though.  Why should we follow the utilitarian rule?  Again, it was Nietzsche who said “only the Englishmen want to be happy.”  We’ve been brainwashed into thinking that happiness is everything.  But it’s not.  Melancholy does offer something to life: creativity, values, and a full life.  If we’re happy, then we’re living a robotic life.  Happiness and bliss is actually just “flaccid grins.”

Based on this introduction, it seems like a great hook.  I’ll admit, I was expecting his to go psychological from this.  But the rest of the book is lacking in that power and zazz that Wilson had in the intro.

In the next few chapters, Wilson criticizes how the American education system focuses on skills rather than ideas.  I agree with him on that, but I don’t see how that deals with melancholy or happiness.  It seems that he’s talking about eudaimonia or what Marx says a “species-life.”  Maybe he’s taking it through all angles suggesting that happiness and melancholy isn’t just a psychological thing, but also economic.  At least, that’s what the next chapter suggested.  Some tidbits from this is that the conventional American lifestyle is happy, but it’s conformed happy.  The happy person is following a script, which isn’t true happiness.  The script is: get a good job, get married, have kids, etc.  We often deem people who don’t follow that script are “not truly happy.”  Being happy blinds us to other aspects of the world.  As Wittgenstein puts it, the world of a happy man is different than the world of a sad man.  To have melancholy is to know the sublime in life.  Sometimes the best things are tragedies, which leads to the literature like Shakespeare, Keats, Dickens, Woolf, and others.  It turns out that inspiration isn’t the muse; your sufferings and constraints are.  You look at your fate, and instead of lamenting about your fate, you make your fate into a creative masterpiece.

What makes the authors so great is that they’ve captured the melancholic life.  Painters like Van Gogh have deep melancholy, but he’s a genius when it comes to painting.  Is there a suggestion that throughout history, melancholic people have been geniuses?  I wonder is Wilson has considered the opposite as true: geniuses are usually melancholic.

There were some moments that didn’t mesh with me.  Wilson talks about how melancholy is a way to get out of what the melancholic perceives as the status quo.  But isn’t this just saying that melancholy = a creative way to not become melancholy?  That almost seems redundant.  People talk about melancholy as if to talk about it.  But why?  It’s because it gives us a new edge, a new way at looking at the world instead of the confined conformism of happiness.

To be happy means that we ignore what’s really going on in the world.  There’s a genocide happening, wars are abound, and corruptions are happening everywhere.  How can we possibly be happy?  Joy and happiness suggest that we throw away are cares, and thus our responsibilities.  Joy makes us ignore the brutalities of the world; it makes us not want to face the reality of the world.

In short, melancholy is actually good because it makes us creative.  However, if one goes too far, it could be suicidal.  Depression is good for the soul because it makes the soul grow.

I often wonder though that if one wants to have a full life, a creative life, a life with value, does that mean that one cannot have that unless they’ve experienced melancholy?  More than that, does one have to force oneself to be melancholic?

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Interesting Lecture from Kathleen Hall Jamieson on Echo Chamber

There’s a free lecture by Kathleen Hall Jamieson here where she talks about the conservative and liberal media and how it reinforces the way we think about the world.  From the abstract:

Dr. Kathleen Hall Jamieson offers a compelling analysis of the conservative media establishment, from talk radio to Fox News to the editorial page of the Wall Street Journal. Using survey data, case studies and the meteoric rise of Rush Limbaugh as evidence, Jamieson tells the story of the growth of conservative media and how it has fundamentally changed American politics. Dr. Jamieson is the Elizabeth Ware Packard Professor of Communication and the Walter and Leonore Annenberg Director of the Annenberg Public Policy Center.

What’s interesting is that she’s talking from a purely factual basis and doesn’t give any normative claims about political thinking.  It’s a very interesting lecture.

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Predicting When Gay Marriage Becomes Legal in each State

At fivethirtyeight.com (the same site that predicted which state would go for Obama or McCain in the 2008 election), they have also come up with a model and formula to predict when each state will vote against the marriage ban.  Surprisingly, Utah is not the last state.  Check it out here.

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Finally, a Expert on Economics

And he’s against the Obama plan about the bailouts.  And his name is Paul Krugman.  You can see his economic blog here. Lately in the news, you always hear Democrats or Republicans saying that this bailout plan is either a good or a bad plan.  The problem is that they’re biased.  Of course they’re going to say it’s good or bad because it’s all part of party politics.  Not Krugman.  He’s part of the anti-establishment.  He’s an expert at economics: taught at Princton University, received the Nobel Prize in Economics last October, I’d say he knows his stuff and the Obama team better listen to him.  He has been critical of both the Bush Administration and Obama’s.  You can see it here:

Or you can read about him in this weeks Newsweek. Here’s someone who falls in the liberal camp, but critiques what the liberals are doing in the economy.  It’s daring, it’s bold, I like it.

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Book Review: Revolutionary Road by Richard Yates

I saw the trailer to Revolutionary Road and it intrigued me.  However, I’ve read a lot of critical reviews saying that the book is extremely better.  Thus, I decided to check out the book and then see the movie afterwords.

The book starts off slow with the main characters, Frank and April Wheeler.  They’re a married couple and they have fulfilled the American Dream: a family, a couple of kids, a house in a nice neighborhood, Frank has a steady job, April stays home and takes care of the kids.  They have it all.  The story takes place in the 1950s and the 1950s was a time where everyone tries to be everyone else.  It’s the age of conformity.  On a tangent, I think every age has this.

The book has an extremely simple plot, but it’s the theme of the book that grabs the reader: what if fulfilling the American Dream doesn’t make you happy?  I guess using Aristotle’s language, what if you’re happy and content, but you haven’t achieved eudaimonia?  That’s what this book is about.  How do you do that?  How do you escape from the comformity of it all?  The characters find a way to escape, but through circumstances, they are forced to abandon their ultimate dream and must stay in the neighborhood.  So here’s the question: many people have died for the American Dream.  Indeed, that was what the Revolutionary War was about.  Would you be willing to sacrfice something big to get away from the American Dream?  Welcome to Revolutionary Road.

At the same time, I saw this as an existentialist book too.  How can you stand out as an individual?  How do you get away from the conformity of society?  Can you live out your life living what you really want to do instead of having a job where it may be stale?  Would you rather have an authentic existence, or financial security?

Yates does a wonderful job of expressing his characters that makes you relate with them.  I really admired Frank and April and I despised the neighbors.  The neighbors are your typical cookie cutter neighbors from the generic suburbs.  As the book moves, you want to read more and more of it.  It gradually sucks you in and it’s an instant page turner as you read more of it.  I loved the ending.  It’s as if these tragic events happen, but we either ignore it or we try to explain it away.  Yates is powerful is suggesting, “here it is.  Don’t look away!  Don’t turn your back to this!  You must face reality!”  Reality is indeed not a fun place, but it’s the truth.  Which would you rather have: happiness and conformity, or reality and melancholy?  Yates suggests to go for the latter.  At least with that, you’ll have your own true existence and individuality.

I should also add.  If the trailer intrigues you, you might like the book.  When my dad saw the trailer, he just thought it was a couple bickering.  I guess it has to grab you first in order for you want to read it.

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Ward Churchill was found Wrongfully Terminated

Taken from the NY Times which you can read here:

A jury ruled Thursday that Ward L. Churchill, a former University of Colorado professor who drew national attention for an essay in which he called some victims of the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks “little Eichmanns,” was wrongfully terminated.

Churchill won, but he only received $1 in damages.

For me, this is the right step in justice.  If you don’t like his views, you don’t need to read them or pay attention to them, but he has the right to speak his mind.  As J. S. Mill has said: If all mankind minus one were of one opinion and only one person were of the contrary opinion, mankind would be no more justified in silencing that person that he, if he had the power, would be in silencing mankind… If the opinion is right, they are deprived of the opportunity of exchanging error for truth; if wrong, they lose, what is almost as great a benefit, the clearer perception and livelier impression of truth, produced by its collision with error.

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Stem Cells are Closer to Curing Deafness

You can check it out here. From the article:

Their discovery could ultimately help those who have lost hair cells through noise damage and some people born with inherited hearing problems.

But any cure is still some years away, experts told the journal Stem Cell.

Of course, it still brings up the ethical question of using embroyonic stem cells.

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Shopping Sprees linked to Periods

There’s a study here that shows women are more likely to go on a shopping spree about 10 days before their period starts.  It deals with the hormonal changes and the negative emotions.

Along with this, women tend to dress up during their fertile days.

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